Expectation is the mother of self destruction said my once very good friend ... Quite contrary to my own belief ... That expectations, hopes, dreams are in fact the reason we are living. But strangely I only started to understand what he really meant though I am not sure of how healthy it is to practice a bland fire less life ... of course it is fire less ... when one finds no reason to look forward to... no matter the result. But yeah I strangely feel much better when I started to expect less from people ... or say from a situation .... I feel much lighter in the head. It feels as if my happiness depends on me and what I intend to do with the time I have at my disposal.

Well another point I could consider is that I am probably sad at dealing with life's disappointments ands therefore I intend to ignore such feelings so as to spare myself another one of those disasters. But how else would one deal with the situation. I mean who would know how i am dealing with it. Say like my present state is ignoring a very intense feeling of expectations. Is it okay to lose out on it.


Gee! I don't know what I am ranitng 'bout. Do you have a clue. Why do I think so much about stuff that do not in general need that much attention. Or does everyone think this hard. I always want to know what happens in another's head. It is a very interesting study. Don't you think.


Whatever we expect with confidence becomes our own self-fulfilling prophecy. - Brian Tracy

oho!

Life is so constructed that an event does not, cannot, will not, match the expectation. - Charlotte Bronte

WHAT!

:) see what I mean.